Wisdom in Proverbs

Yesterday morning as I was doing my personal devotions, I read Proverbs 15. Most of the time my morning Bible time is rushed - plus I'm not quite top-notch coherent yet - and I don't usually take the time to really think about the words and let God speak to me through them. This time, however, I wanted to really ponder and get my mind focused on the Word.

As I started the first few verses of the chapter, I began thinking about 1 Peter 3.
I'd better explain. I think of Proverbs as sort of a godly guideline of living wisely. Proverbs 15:1 says "A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger."
How true these words are to me. I remember a couple years ago I would get really frustrated with my siblings (usually if they were violating what I thought to be my "rights"). My anger would soon boil over and I'd treat them very poorly. Then I started applying this verse to my life when I felt provoked or angry. I'd say it to myself in my mind and just keep quiet.. And you know what? It usually worked! Of course, sometimes it was my own fault that I was angry or I had started the whole fight, and then it was better if I didn't get bitter but just apologized right away. :)

Other verses in this passage speak to me of using my tongue wisely and for the glory of God, listening to the instruction and reproof of my parents (or those in authority over me), following in the path of righteousness, having a merry heart, getting counsel and advice when planning, thinking right and pure thoughts, and fearing the Lord.
So what is the "end result" (at least on earth) of these things? This is where I think of 1 Peter 3.

"But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which  is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price." 1 Peter 3:4

This Scripture is actually talking about how wives are supposed to act and how to present themselves, but can't this be applied in other situations as well? I think that by following the instructions in Proverbs - listening to the leadership and reproof of those in authority, thinking holy and pure thoughts, having a reverence for the Lord, and speaking wisely (to name a few) - we can be well on our way to obtaining "the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price" 1 Peter 3:4b (italics added) As I was writing, the last part of that verse popped out to me. (See? God shows you new things all the time!)
"...which is in the sights of God of great price." Who wouldn't want to have a spirit of great value in God's eyes?? I sure would!  By having a "meek and quiet spirit", we can point others to God by our example . . . which brings me to the next verse: 1 Peter 3:15.

"But sanctify the Lord God in your hearts: and be ready always to give an answer to every man that asketh you a reason of the hope that is in you with meekness and fear:"

What do I do if someone does ask me about my faith? or about the "hope that is in you [me]"? 
I looked up this verse in a Bible program we have and glanced at some different commentaries. This is part of one by John Wesley. (The Scripture is in red and his commentary is in blue.)

But sanctify the Lord God in your hearts - Have an holy fear, and a full trust in his wise providence. 
The hope - Of eternal life.

With meekness - For anger would hurt your cause as well as your soul. 
And fear - A fear of offending God, and a jealousy over yourselves, lest ye speak amiss.

In other words, if we have a holy fear and a full trust in HIS wise providence, then we should want to always be ready to give an answer to anyone that asks us a reason of the hope (the hope we have of eternal life) that is in us. We should be able to talk to people about Christ with meekness and fear (of God).

Anyway, those were just some of my thoughts I wanted to share with you'll today!  :)  My apologies if I didn't write it in a clear manner. Getting my thoughts out in words is not really my forte. Ah well...  :)

Lord willing I'll write more some . . . but until then, on with the life of a busy high-schooler!  :)